Serious love without heartache is a fairytale. All relationships need heartache, moments of weakness, and fights. Love should be built up from things each person has to sacrifice. If one person sacrifices more than the other, the possibility of hostility toward the other person could arise. For me, I live life the way I want. I am strongly affectionate and extremely caring, but I choose to not sacrifice to avoid the heartache that builds love in a relationship.
I have no regrets and no remorse for choosing to make relationship the way I feel most comfortable, does this make me a bad person? No. I know the reason people, especially me, refuse to sacrifice is because of how terrified I am to let my heart be vulnerable. To sacrifice for love and let someone completely in is a scary life choice. I fear being hurt, letting my guard down, and allowing someone to see my soul. The day I'm willing to sacrifice something about me, or have a fight that builds my relationship into a stronger one is the day I will understand Love.
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